Paying it Forward: Bobby’s Story
Bobby has been involved with Rubicon since 2017 as a participant, mentor, and active member of the Participant Advisory Board. Bobby has served on interview panels and strategic plan work groups to provide feedback to the organization and seeks any and all opportunities to give back.
Bobby recently visited Rubicon to speak to Job Club members about ACE Hardware, where he has been employed for the past two years. ACE is a background-friendly employer – it assesses job candidates based on their qualifications without regard to past criminal justice involvement -- and it is recruiting for multiple positions in the East Bay. Bobby talked about his role at ACE and was generous in offering tips to participants who were interested in applying -- everything from how to communicate with the hiring manager to the typical clientele at local stores. He was relatable, honest, supportive, encouraging, and ready to advocate for anyone from Rubicon.
Following a line of participants who asked Bobby to review their resumes and put in a good word for their applications, Bobby predicted that at least 1-2 would have a job that same day! He said he could see it on their faces that they were ready for the opportunity: “They’re eager, they ask questions, and they’re ready to take it to the next level.”
When asked what brought him to Job Club, Bobby said “paying it forward makes me happy. This program helped me, and I am at a place now where I have the opportunity to be of help. It all starts with one person, and I want to be that person for somebody.”
Growing up on a horse ranch in Oakley, California, Bobby learned a lot of valuable skills; he taught himself how to be handy, and he also learned to communicate well with people from backgrounds different than his own.
Before coming to Rubicon Programs, Bobby knew how to get a job, and he had done it before. He had the skills to be successful on his own; he was resourceful, insightful, and eager to share his experiences. What was missing at the time he initially came to Rubicon, according to Bobby, was confidence.
Coming out of incarceration, Bobby was unsure of himself and his future prospects. His involvement with the system left him feeling like there was no room for mistakes, and that everyone was expecting perfection. Bobby was looking for someone to relate to, someone who could help build his confidence and see what was possible for his future.
“I’m a people-person, I get along well with people, but Rubicon staff were different. They are everyday people…they made the workshops interesting and fun, and they kept it real -- 100% honest, and I respect that.”
Bobby began working with his Impact Coach, Sam, during his participation in Rubicon’s foundations workshops. The Impact Coach serves as the primary relationship for each participant, providing support and guidance through the duration of their work with Rubicon. At Rubicon, we believe that the relationship is the intervention, and the intervention is the relationship. As Bobby put it, “when someone believes in you, you believe in yourself.”
Bobby quickly emerged as a leader in his cohort. Shortly after completing the two-week intensive workshops, Bobby worked with his Employment Coach to search for a job and secured a position at ACE Hardware. Within his first year of employment, Bobby was promoted to a supervisory position.
When asked what he likes most about his job at ACE, Bobby responded, “I like the customers. I have a gift that people radiate to me; they really like talking to me.”
Bobby described one particular customer, an older woman, who came into the store right after Bobby left to take his lunch break. She insisted on only dealing with Bobby and waited the full hour until he returned, eager for him to help her.
Another customer who visited the store asked for Bobby by name. She explained that her sister recently got some help with a landscaping project. “Her lawn looks gorgeous!” she exclaimed. “She told me I had to come and see you.”
“It gives me a really good feeling to help someone and to see them smile,” said Bobby.
Bobby’s own experience and successes enable him to see the same great potential in the participants walking through Rubicon’s doors today. As Bobby described one participant whom he already connected to a job opportunity, he said “I take chances on people. In prison, you work hard and you don’t show up late. Once you have a real job, you already know how to get work done and the value of getting paid for it.”
As a leader on Rubicon’s Participant Advisory Board (PAB), Bobby assists with developing the agenda for monthly meetings, facilitating meetings, recruiting his peers to the PAB, and setting a positive example for all new members. Rubicon’s Connections Manager said, “Bobby has set his sights on reaching back to assist participants with developing skill sets that they had not focused on developing before.”
When Rubicon set out to develop and refine our Theory of Change, Bobby was invited to the table to contribute his ideas. Bobby shared his experiences and the positive impact that Rubicon’s model had on his life; he vocalized the needs of his peers and ways that the program model could further assist program participants on their road to success.
Reflecting on his future, Bobby shared that “having the right supports and someone to push you makes the difference.” Rubicon was that difference for Bobby, and now he is the difference for so many others.
As he got up to leave, Bobby paused and then reached into his pocket and pulled out a smooth, clear stone. “They gave me this stone at my Rubicon Stepping Stones Ceremony. I carry it with me every day, everywhere I go – it’s a reminder to take everything one step at a time.”